With the right partner, sex toys will take your sex life from a “Yeah, baby” to “Bazinga!”
Let’s debunk the myth that sex toys are for lonely nymphomaniacs. Sex toys are always fun for solo play, but pleasure grows exponentially for couples. Four hands and a vibrator are better than two.
If you’ve never dipped your toes into couples sex toys, watch out! The toys below are perfect for naughty first times but they’re also great for those of us with a bit more, ahem, experience. Give one (or more) of these a try. You won’t regret it.
Sex Toys Every Couple Should Try
Restraints and blindfold: Yes, you can go all Fifty Shades and use your honey’s silk tie, but that’s so cliche. A blindfold will heighten your other senses while the silky restraints will take your foreplay to the next level. Treat yourself to a matching set of ties and a blindfold. It’s like matching your bra and panties–requires a little more effort but it’s sexy as hell. We love this red hot beginner’s bondage kit ($45) that comes with a feather tickler.
A buffet of lubricants: Lube isn’t just a necessary sex “toy” but make sex more comfortable and fun. Water-based lube works best for most occasions, but why try some that tingle or warm up like this Doc Johnson Mood Sensation Lube Sampler ($15)? There’s one for every mood (get it?).
Vibrating Love Ring or C-Ring: Also know as cock rings, these small toys pack a punch! Most women need (yes, need) clitorial stimulation to reach the Big O and these vibrator rings are the ultimate multi-tasker. Once he’s hard, the inner ring stretches and slides down to the base of his shaft to make him harder and last longer. The larger ring on the Twin Love Ring ($23) pictured above can go be slipped around his sac for extra stimulation for him. During sex, you’ll feel the vibrations on your clit and he’ll feel it around his penis. Win-win.
Sex positioner pillow: Once you try one of these, you’ll never go back. Wedge shaped foam “pillows” can elevate hips in missionary position or support your stomach during doggy-style sex so he can hit your G-spot and more! We prefer firm pillows that have a moisture proof liner and come with a washable cover, like the Liberator Jaz ($55). It’s even small enough to hide under your bed. 
Remote control vibrating panties: Slip on a pair of sexy vibrating panties and hand your partner the wireless remote. A pocket hides a powerful vibe that will keep you buzzing all night long. Wear it around your home or out to dinner–if you dare. You’ll want to choose loud venues like a dance club, crowded bar or action movie, as the vibrators can be slightly noisy. These tie-on lace remote control panties ($30) are elegant and naughty.
Masturbating sleeve for him: Stay with me here. Yes, this toy will come in handy when he wants solo play, but it’s also great for the two of you. Add it to your blow job repetoire and make him feel like a porn stare. With a bit of flavored lube, the textured sleeve helps you stimulate his shaft while you work on his more sensitive parts. Right before the big event, just pull the sleeve over his head to catch his explosion. This Fleshlight Quickshot ($37) will become your new BJ BFF.
The Sqweel 2: Let’s face it. Tongues get tired. Give your lover’s tongue a break during oral sex marathons with this innovative Sqweel 2 features a wheel with 10 lapping silicone tongues and 3 speeds. You’ll be in oral sex heaven!
One Last Thing
Everyone responds to sex toys differently, so these might not work for you. The fun is in experimenting! The worst that can happen is you laugh at yourselves.
Which of these toys would you try first?
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